mother by night

Baby Registry

Not Your Typical Registry

As much as I wish I were an expert on all the motherly things, let’s be honest – I’m new at this. I need tried and true items that have worked for mothers before, not just items that look pretty in the store. That’s why I’ve chosen this unique format for my registry.

Help me know what has worked for you

I’ve decided to briefly describe my mothering philosophies and vision so that you get a feel for my personality and preferences. Then you can use your own unique experiences and expertise to help me acquire what I really need in order to prepare a home for my precious daughter. If you have previously loved items that you are done with, I am more than happy to keep on loving them for you. The items don’t need to be brand new.

Links are just for reference

I will be including links to some items, but they are mostly to give you an idea of what I’m thinking. I am not partial to certain brands or specific products, so don’t feel like you have to buy the exact item I linked. If you know where to find something better or cheaper, please do!

No time to read everything?

Okay, I realize not everyone is going to read through this entire post. Maybe you’re at the store right now and you just need an idea of what I put on my list. If you are looking for a quick list, here you go: books, wooden toys, blankets, and diapers. If you want to know more, read on.

Breastfeeding

If my body and baby are capable, I intend to breastfeed my baby for a minimum of six months, up to a year. This will likely require a bunch of breastfeeding paraphernalia which is all still a mystery to me…pumps, bottles, breast pads, oh my! Help, friends. What worked for you?

  • Silicone pump/milk catcher
  • Breast milk storage (ideas?)
  • Bottles (which ones worked best for you?)
  • Burp cloths
  • Nursing cover
  • Nursing pads
  • Nipple cream
  • Postpartum recovery items

Safety/Hygiene

I don’t plan on using a baby monitor, but I like the idea of the owlet socks that can alert me if my child stops breathing. We will probably also use baby gates, drawer magnet locks, and other child-proofing items. We also need things like baby nail clippers, a baby thermometer, and who knows what else. Again, a lot of this is a mystery to me, so let me know what has worked for you!

  • Soaps, shampoos, lotions – preferably natural and free of yucky chemicals
  • Drawer locks
  • Baby thermometer
  • Nail clippers
  • Bibs
  • Owlet socks
  • Baby gate

Disposable Diapers

I have chosen to use disposable diapers. I don’t yet know what brands I prefer or what sizes my child will use so this is where your judgment as a previous parent would be helpful.

  • Diapers
  • Wipes
  • Portable changing pad
  • Rash cream
  • Diaper pail

Transportation

I would love a few baby wraps for keeping my girl close while I do other things. I am open to advice about strollers… or happy to use a preloved one that somebody doesn’t need anymore. I will also need a diaper bag. What else do babies need for traveling?

  • Baby wraps
  • Diaper bag
  • Umbrella stroller

Education

I plan on teaching our little girl Spanish. Because of this, I am obsessed with Spanish books and other Spanish materials for kids. I also love books that have real-life pictures… or really any books, for that matter. In addition, I need a few high-contrast books and pictures for the few months right after the baby is born.

Nursery Decor & Memory Keeping

Although I am having a girl, I’m not into bright pinks. I prefer light, neutral colors. I love whites, creams, and soft colors that don’t call a lot of attention to themselves.

Clothing

Who doesn’t love buying clothing for little girls? This one is mainly a free-for-all, with the caveat that I don’t want everything she wears to be bright pink. Otherwise, let the cuteness begin!

  • Onesies
  • Shirt/Pant Outfits
  • Dresses
  • Bows & headbands
  • Socks/shoes
  • Sleep sack

Montessori Philosophy

As far as the overall feel for my home and nursery, I generally fall in line with the philosophies of Maria Montessori, who believed that we must follow the child and prepare the environment to help children do as much as possible on their own. In the nursery, this might look like low shelves with a few classic toys, like wooden rattles or puzzle balls. After 6-12 months in a bassinet, the child sleeps on a floor bed with plenty of space for movement. In a child’s movement area, they may have a soft rug or mat to lay on and mobiles specifically designed for their development. The nursery and home are decorated to promote beauty and peace. Most furniture, bedding, and other decor are in soft, neutral colors that help the child and parent feel calm. Visible toys are kept to a minimum to avoid overstimulation.

Thank you for your insights and generosity! Our little one is truly blessed to be surrounded by such a supportive and loving community.